Night on the streets was real eye-opener (From The Oxford Times)
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Night on the streets was real eye-opener
12:00pm Friday 28th December 2012 in News
By Emma Harrison, Reporter covering Rose Hill, Littlemore and Iffley. Contact me on 01865 425430
FUNDRAISER Sian Hawley failed to get a wink of sleep during her night of sleeping rough on the streets of Oxford.
She says the experience on Saturday night opened her eyes to the plight of homeless people living in the city facing winter without a roof over their heads.
The 25-year-old from Ardington and two family members raised more than £1,000 for charity Oxford Homeless Pathways by spending the night outside the Westgate Centre collecting donations.
Her father, Leslie Belcher, 51, was a rough sleeper who died at the Lucy Faithfull House hostel in Speedwell Street on October 31.
Miss Hawley said: “We had charity buckets but a lot of people thought we were homeless. They either walked past us and didn’t acknowledge us or especially at the end of the night we got patronising comments from people who had been drinking. But some people were absolutely lovely.”
She added: “We ached from head to toe. It was one night and I felt like I had been hit by a bus.”
The trio had sleeping bags and plenty of warm clothes to get them through the relatively mild but wet night and spoke to two homeless people called Sharon and Shaggy.
Miss Hawley said: “There is nothing I could have done to experience what they have to go through – even if I spent a week on the streets I have a home to go to. They don’t. Every single night is a night of survival for them.”
Miss Hawley said she discovered that homeless people with pets find it difficult to secure rooms in a hostel and the experience has inspired her to do more to support homeless people in the future.
Oxford Homeless Pathways helped Mr Belcher when he was given an Asbo and fell into difficulties.
Miss Hawley said: “I think he would have been really proud. He would be really happy that I kind of understand a bit more of what they have to go through. And how you can have someone on the street who people can walk past – but if you spend time getting to know them they are actually amazing people.”
She was joined by cousin James Desmond, of Blackbird Leys, and her father’s cousin Colin Morris-Smith, 55, of Blackbird Leys, who said: “We had lots of conversations with some of the homeless people and learnt a lot about what it is like to live on the street. It was an eye-opener.”
Comments(33)
Sandy Wimpole-Smythe
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5:37pm Fri 28 Dec 12
Myron Blatz wrote:When was the last time Andrew Smith raised anything in the House of Commons, other than a glass in the members bar, the man is a waste of space.
One of the many issues which Labour-controlled Oxford City Council has continually failed to address, the Homeless on the Streets of the City of Dreaming Spires won't be found on websites, or tourist information guides. Nor would single males or single females without children under 18 even have a gnats-whisker of a chance of being included on Oxford City Council's Social Housing List - though single-parent women with children will not only get preferential treatment, but larger Council accommodation with each successive child. Nor will the planned additional housing at Barton be of any relief to the homeless - and despite the likes of Cllrs Price, Cook and Tanner always blaming either the Tory-led Coalition Government or Tory-led County Council, the reality is that during 13 mainly prosperous years under Blair and Brown (until the Recession hit the UK in 2008) Labour failed to make significant improvements for the Homeless in Oxford - including single males with low-paid jobs. Showcase fancy toilets for tourists (to continue the myth of Dreaming Spires?) and half-olympic sized swimming pools to keep Labour's vote in Blackbird Leys do not take the homeless off the streets, nor enable single males under 60 to gain social and affordable housing. When was the last time Labour MP Andrew Smith raised this issue in the House of Commons on behalf of the homeless and single males under-60 in Oxford?
carfax cabby ox1
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6:19pm Fri 28 Dec 12
mytaxes
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7:19pm Fri 28 Dec 12
Myron Blatz
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8:37pm Fri 28 Dec 12
carfax cabby ox1
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9:47pm Fri 28 Dec 12
DoctorBob
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10:15pm Fri 28 Dec 12
1) The statements about single parents and social housing are factually incorrect. All they are are urban myths propagated to support people's stereotypical understanding and prejudices. I'm happy,of course, to reassess my view in light of any evidence people may wish to present.
2) Many people in council houses do not actually cost us money, in fact, as most council accommodation build costs have more than been covered they actually save with their rents
DoctorBob
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10:17pm Fri 28 Dec 12
xjohnx
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8:43am Sat 29 Dec 12
What have any of you ever done to help??
What is your new years resolution??
Donate to the Sally Army at the very least!!!!
Lord Palmerstone
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9:01am Sat 29 Dec 12
DoctorBob wrote:Absolutely right. All young women who get pregnant and are unsupported by the creature that got them pregnant (and I think even you would agree we need to turn that lot into eunuchs p d q ) stay at home with their mother and their mother's current cohabitees, until the children are old enough to go to Oxford or Cambridge Universities.Absolut
Two points.
1) The statements about single parents and social housing are factually incorrect. All they are are urban myths propagated to support people's stereotypical understanding and prejudices. I'm happy,of course, to reassess my view in light of any evidence people may wish to present.
2) Many people in council houses do not actually cost us money, in fact, as most council accommodation build costs have more than been covered they actually save with their rents
ely right oh great and wonderful socialist and surely as well as "stereotypical" & "prejudiced" you should have included "bigoted" These are words you lot have to use because you haven't a prayer of winning any debate on logical grounds.
And people in council-or any other form of public- housing DO cost us money, because unrealised rent increases my Council Tax. You whine about Starbucks not paying a "fair" amount of tax. Well you can't have it both ways. If someone pays £100 a week rent for a house which you part own when it should be £170 then they are stealing from you.
Lord Palmerstone
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9:04am Sat 29 Dec 12
EMBOX2
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4:12pm Sat 29 Dec 12
It is an inconvienient truth that many homeless" in Oxford are nothing of the sort. They choose to be on the streets despite the numerous "projects" that exist. Also note the number who are not from Oxford but come here, the latest foreign Big Issues sellers are one example.
There needs to be tough love for these people - give them help but when they reject it, send them back to the city of their birth (or where they have family). Oxford taxpayers do not need, and cannot afford to support such people.
Myron Blatz
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5:30pm Sat 29 Dec 12
DoctorBob
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6:01pm Sat 29 Dec 12
Lord Palmerstone wrote:Methinks you don't quite understand the concept of social housing.
DoctorBob wrote: Two points. 1) The statements about single parents and social housing are factually incorrect. All they are are urban myths propagated to support people's stereotypical understanding and prejudices. I'm happy,of course, to reassess my view in light of any evidence people may wish to present. 2) Many people in council houses do not actually cost us money, in fact, as most council accommodation build costs have more than been covered they actually save with their rentsAbsolutely right. All young women who get pregnant and are unsupported by the creature that got them pregnant (and I think even you would agree we need to turn that lot into eunuchs p d q ) stay at home with their mother and their mother's current cohabitees, until the children are old enough to go to Oxford or Cambridge Universities.Absolut ely right oh great and wonderful socialist and surely as well as "stereotypical" & "prejudiced" you should have included "bigoted" These are words you lot have to use because you haven't a prayer of winning any debate on logical grounds. And people in council-or any other form of public- housing DO cost us money, because unrealised rent increases my Council Tax. You whine about Starbucks not paying a "fair" amount of tax. Well you can't have it both ways. If someone pays £100 a week rent for a house which you part own when it should be £170 then they are stealing from you.
DoctorBob
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6:03pm Sat 29 Dec 12
EMBOX2 wrote:Oh dear. Ignorant on so many levels.
Back on topic, I do not speak ill of the dead, however Mr. Belcher was a nuisance to Oxford. I caught him trying to steal a bicycle once, and to say he was known to the Police is an understatement. He was given chance after chance. I wonder what his daughter, who does a nobel job of fundraising for those less fortunate, thinks of her father.
It is an inconvienient truth that many homeless" in Oxford are nothing of the sort. They choose to be on the streets despite the numerous "projects" that exist. Also note the number who are not from Oxford but come here, the latest foreign Big Issues sellers are one example.
There needs to be tough love for these people - give them help but when they reject it, send them back to the city of their birth (or where they have family). Oxford taxpayers do not need, and cannot afford to support such people.
DoctorBob
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6:05pm Sat 29 Dec 12
Myron Blatz wrote:Just as I suspected, no evidence forthcoming but insult is a common diversion tactic in such circumstances.
Seems 'DoctorBob' would appear to be the urbane myth.
Lord Palmerstone
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9:40am Sun 30 Dec 12
DoctorBob wrote:Qute correct. Like the majority in this country I worked for decades to buy my house and as you quite rightly observe it is therefore anti-social, not to mention unaffordable . And of course it's quite right for people taking home the same as I do to live in public housing at 100 quid a week, thereby increasing my Council Tax. You are indeed the Sage of Oxfordshire. Are you sure you're just a Doctor? Someone as erudite as you must surely be a Perfesser
Lord Palmerstone wrote:Methinks you don't quite understand the concept of social housing.
DoctorBob wrote: Two points. 1) The statements about single parents and social housing are factually incorrect. All they are are urban myths propagated to support people's stereotypical understanding and prejudices. I'm happy,of course, to reassess my view in light of any evidence people may wish to present. 2) Many people in council houses do not actually cost us money, in fact, as most council accommodation build costs have more than been covered they actually save with their rentsAbsolutely right. All young women who get pregnant and are unsupported by the creature that got them pregnant (and I think even you would agree we need to turn that lot into eunuchs p d q ) stay at home with their mother and their mother's current cohabitees, until the children are old enough to go to Oxford or Cambridge Universities.Absolut ely right oh great and wonderful socialist and surely as well as "stereotypical" & "prejudiced" you should have included "bigoted" These are words you lot have to use because you haven't a prayer of winning any debate on logical grounds. And people in council-or any other form of public- housing DO cost us money, because unrealised rent increases my Council Tax. You whine about Starbucks not paying a "fair" amount of tax. Well you can't have it both ways. If someone pays £100 a week rent for a house which you part own when it should be £170 then they are stealing from you.
EMBOX2
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1:01pm Sun 30 Dec 12
DoctorBob wrote:In what way?
EMBOX2 wrote:Oh dear. Ignorant on so many levels.
Back on topic, I do not speak ill of the dead, however Mr. Belcher was a nuisance to Oxford. I caught him trying to steal a bicycle once, and to say he was known to the Police is an understatement. He was given chance after chance. I wonder what his daughter, who does a nobel job of fundraising for those less fortunate, thinks of her father.
It is an inconvienient truth that many homeless" in Oxford are nothing of the sort. They choose to be on the streets despite the numerous "projects" that exist. Also note the number who are not from Oxford but come here, the latest foreign Big Issues sellers are one example.
There needs to be tough love for these people - give them help but when they reject it, send them back to the city of their birth (or where they have family). Oxford taxpayers do not need, and cannot afford to support such people.
DoctorBob
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3:03pm Sun 30 Dec 12
EMBOX2 wrote:In every way after your first paragraph.
DoctorBob wrote:In what way?
EMBOX2 wrote:Oh dear. Ignorant on so many levels.
Back on topic, I do not speak ill of the dead, however Mr. Belcher was a nuisance to Oxford. I caught him trying to steal a bicycle once, and to say he was known to the Police is an understatement. He was given chance after chance. I wonder what his daughter, who does a nobel job of fundraising for those less fortunate, thinks of her father.
It is an inconvienient truth that many homeless" in Oxford are nothing of the sort. They choose to be on the streets despite the numerous "projects" that exist. Also note the number who are not from Oxford but come here, the latest foreign Big Issues sellers are one example.
There needs to be tough love for these people - give them help but when they reject it, send them back to the city of their birth (or where they have family). Oxford taxpayers do not need, and cannot afford to support such people.
carfax cabby ox1
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5:07pm Sun 30 Dec 12
DoctorBob wrote:Dr Bob, not wishing to slag off a family member, but my niece has 5 children, has never worked since the day she left school, and lives quite happily in her third council property (the properties seem to grow in tandam with her offspring) she has a group of 3 friends who are also fortunate enough to be in the same situation, now they may be unique in Oxford and be the only four in this situation, but somehow I think not.
Two points.
1) The statements about single parents and social housing are factually incorrect. All they are are urban myths propagated to support people's stereotypical understanding and prejudices. I'm happy,of course, to reassess my view in light of any evidence people may wish to present.
2) Many people in council houses do not actually cost us money, in fact, as most council accommodation build costs have more than been covered they actually save with their rents
EMBOX2
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7:42pm Sun 30 Dec 12
DoctorBob wrote:If you can't even engage in a conversation to rebut my claims (all of which I can backup, since I am on first name terms with many of the "homeless" and support workers) then you ought not to even bother replying.
EMBOX2 wrote:In every way after your first paragraph.
DoctorBob wrote:In what way?
EMBOX2 wrote:Oh dear. Ignorant on so many levels.
Back on topic, I do not speak ill of the dead, however Mr. Belcher was a nuisance to Oxford. I caught him trying to steal a bicycle once, and to say he was known to the Police is an understatement. He was given chance after chance. I wonder what his daughter, who does a nobel job of fundraising for those less fortunate, thinks of her father.
It is an inconvienient truth that many homeless" in Oxford are nothing of the sort. They choose to be on the streets despite the numerous "projects" that exist. Also note the number who are not from Oxford but come here, the latest foreign Big Issues sellers are one example.
There needs to be tough love for these people - give them help but when they reject it, send them back to the city of their birth (or where they have family). Oxford taxpayers do not need, and cannot afford to support such people.
These homeless tourists are a massive problem in Oxford (and Brighton during the summer) and it is high time something was done. The phasing out of help to all but the genuinely homeless should help.
Many "homeless" in Oxford are none of the sort. They just don't want to partake in society. Go ask them yourself - most are quite amiable to a conversation.
the wizard
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9:22pm Sun 30 Dec 12
Many "homeless" are that way as they prefer to be that way. Take away the hand outs, enforce anti begging rules and sleeping rough legislation and they will slowly become aware that their chosen life style is not so cavalier and fingers up to the rest of society as they think.
If they are shunned enough and the do-gooders retreat, so will many of the free loaders, leaving a small minority who are the genuine cases of concern.
If ever there was a contradiction of terms, it is Oxford itself. So so so educated, maybe, but equally neglective of what is happening on its own streets. Don't blame the council, blame the society that has voted for the council and what it stands for.
oafie
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2:23pm Mon 31 Dec 12
FACT Have another baby...need a bigger house...get rehoused.
FACT Have another baby, more benefits and get rehoused.
FACT Then reaping so much money in benefits no motivation to improve self, situation let alone get a job.
FACT Might do a bit of training or studying...will get that free because on benefits, and still have nice cheap affordable home in Oxford.
FACT Check out the streets and pubs! Stop parents being able to spend all day getting plastered in front of their young children.
Perhaps those under 25 with babies should be placed in 'shared supported properties' where they are not put in a situation where they will simply gain materially, but might learn other skills including being independent and being able to provide for their children.
DoctorBob
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5:48pm Tue 1 Jan 13
oafie wrote:Posting FACT before your opinions doesn't make them facts. Evidence confirms facts and the reason you haven't produced any is because you haven't used evidence to inform your opinion.
FACT Getting yourself pregnant gives you priority for housing. Once in a cheap home for life, often in very nice properties and situated next to those that are private owned.
FACT Have another baby...need a bigger house...get rehoused.
FACT Have another baby, more benefits and get rehoused.
FACT Then reaping so much money in benefits no motivation to improve self, situation let alone get a job.
FACT Might do a bit of training or studying...will get that free because on benefits, and still have nice cheap affordable home in Oxford.
FACT Check out the streets and pubs! Stop parents being able to spend all day getting plastered in front of their young children.
Perhaps those under 25 with babies should be placed in 'shared supported properties' where they are not put in a situation where they will simply gain materially, but might learn other skills including being independent and being able to provide for their children.
DoctorBob
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5:50pm Tue 1 Jan 13
oafie wrote:Posting FACT before your opinions doesn't make them facts. Evidence confirms facts and the reason you haven't produced any is because you haven't used evidence to inform your opinion.
FACT Getting yourself pregnant gives you priority for housing. Once in a cheap home for life, often in very nice properties and situated next to those that are private owned.
FACT Have another baby...need a bigger house...get rehoused.
FACT Have another baby, more benefits and get rehoused.
FACT Then reaping so much money in benefits no motivation to improve self, situation let alone get a job.
FACT Might do a bit of training or studying...will get that free because on benefits, and still have nice cheap affordable home in Oxford.
FACT Check out the streets and pubs! Stop parents being able to spend all day getting plastered in front of their young children.
Perhaps those under 25 with babies should be placed in 'shared supported properties' where they are not put in a situation where they will simply gain materially, but might learn other skills including being independent and being able to provide for their children.
DoctorBob
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6:16pm Tue 1 Jan 13
EMBOX2 wrote:Just taking your comment about many homeless being no such thing is a perfect example of how nonsensical your post is. Homeless is a descriptive term for someone who has no permanent home to live in including sofa surfing. If someone fits this description then they are, de facto, homeless regardless of your personal view of their motivations or circumstances.
DoctorBob wrote:If you can't even engage in a conversation to rebut my claims (all of which I can backup, since I am on first name terms with many of the "homeless" and support workers) then you ought not to even bother replying.
EMBOX2 wrote:In every way after your first paragraph.
DoctorBob wrote:In what way?
EMBOX2 wrote:Oh dear. Ignorant on so many levels.
Back on topic, I do not speak ill of the dead, however Mr. Belcher was a nuisance to Oxford. I caught him trying to steal a bicycle once, and to say he was known to the Police is an understatement. He was given chance after chance. I wonder what his daughter, who does a nobel job of fundraising for those less fortunate, thinks of her father.
It is an inconvienient truth that many homeless" in Oxford are nothing of the sort. They choose to be on the streets despite the numerous "projects" that exist. Also note the number who are not from Oxford but come here, the latest foreign Big Issues sellers are one example.
There needs to be tough love for these people - give them help but when they reject it, send them back to the city of their birth (or where they have family). Oxford taxpayers do not need, and cannot afford to support such people.
These homeless tourists are a massive problem in Oxford (and Brighton during the summer) and it is high time something was done. The phasing out of help to all but the genuinely homeless should help.
Many "homeless" in Oxford are none of the sort. They just don't want to partake in society. Go ask them yourself - most are quite amiable to a conversation.
To examine your statement further we can see what nonsense it really is. You say many homeless aren't homeless. They either are or aren't by definition.
So you are on first name terms with some homeless people. Whoopy doo! Are you saying your evidential research is participant observation? Having spent a good chunk of my life working with the homeless I can assure you very few make it a lifestyle choice. I can also assure you that those names you think you are on a knowing basis with most probably are aliases or nicknames.
Many people on the streets are ex services, come from abusive or violent backgrounds, have mental health issues or are unfortunate enough to have lost everything in a society that champions ruthlessness.
DoctorBob
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6:25pm Tue 1 Jan 13
carfax cabby ox1 wrote:You can' t beat a bit of hearsay as evidence especially when it's key point becomes "seems".
DoctorBob wrote:Dr Bob, not wishing to slag off a family member, but my niece has 5 children, has never worked since the day she left school, and lives quite happily in her third council property (the properties seem to grow in tandam with her offspring) she has a group of 3 friends who are also fortunate enough to be in the same situation, now they may be unique in Oxford and be the only four in this situation, but somehow I think not.
Two points.
1) The statements about single parents and social housing are factually incorrect. All they are are urban myths propagated to support people's stereotypical understanding and prejudices. I'm happy,of course, to reassess my view in light of any evidence people may wish to present.
2) Many people in council houses do not actually cost us money, in fact, as most council accommodation build costs have more than been covered they actually save with their rents
Any real evidence that can be verified?
Lord Palmerstone
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5:12pm Wed 2 Jan 13
That's really sad Doc Bob. You're some kind of social worker. If you try real hard you could still get a proper job. Maybe be the "Corporate Parenting Manager" for our County Council like Ms. Fonseca, get wads of cash and an OBE. Just tell yourself you can do it. Remember the ant and the rubbertree plant.
carfax cabby ox1
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5:41pm Wed 2 Jan 13
DoctorBob wrote:Are you calling me a liar Dr Bob, because if you are I will provide evidence in court (my niece will stand up under oath) and we will take what ever you have in damages. What I wrote is the TRUTH. If you wish to take this further email me carfaxcabby@hotmail.
carfax cabby ox1 wrote:You can' t beat a bit of hearsay as evidence especially when it's key point becomes "seems".
DoctorBob wrote:Dr Bob, not wishing to slag off a family member, but my niece has 5 children, has never worked since the day she left school, and lives quite happily in her third council property (the properties seem to grow in tandam with her offspring) she has a group of 3 friends who are also fortunate enough to be in the same situation, now they may be unique in Oxford and be the only four in this situation, but somehow I think not.
Two points.
1) The statements about single parents and social housing are factually incorrect. All they are are urban myths propagated to support people's stereotypical understanding and prejudices. I'm happy,of course, to reassess my view in light of any evidence people may wish to present.
2) Many people in council houses do not actually cost us money, in fact, as most council accommodation build costs have more than been covered they actually save with their rents
Any real evidence that can be verified?
com I can verify what I say can you.
DoctorBob
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9:24pm Wed 2 Jan 13
carfax cabby ox1 wrote:What I am saying is that hearsay is not evidence especially when it's not even being presented as conclusive.
DoctorBob wrote:Are you calling me a liar Dr Bob, because if you are I will provide evidence in court (my niece will stand up under oath) and we will take what ever you have in damages. What I wrote is the TRUTH. If you wish to take this further email me carfaxcabby@hotmail.
carfax cabby ox1 wrote:You can' t beat a bit of hearsay as evidence especially when it's key point becomes "seems".
DoctorBob wrote:Dr Bob, not wishing to slag off a family member, but my niece has 5 children, has never worked since the day she left school, and lives quite happily in her third council property (the properties seem to grow in tandam with her offspring) she has a group of 3 friends who are also fortunate enough to be in the same situation, now they may be unique in Oxford and be the only four in this situation, but somehow I think not.
Two points.
1) The statements about single parents and social housing are factually incorrect. All they are are urban myths propagated to support people's stereotypical understanding and prejudices. I'm happy,of course, to reassess my view in light of any evidence people may wish to present.
2) Many people in council houses do not actually cost us money, in fact, as most council accommodation build costs have more than been covered they actually save with their rents
Any real evidence that can be verified?
com I can verify what I say can you.
I'd be interested on what grounds you think you'd be seeing anybody in court?
DoctorBob
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9:35pm Wed 2 Jan 13
Lord Palmerstone wrote:I think you should get an OBE my lord just for managing to post without using the word Socialist.
"Having spent a good chunk of my life working with the homeless"
That's really sad Doc Bob. You're some kind of social worker. If you try real hard you could still get a proper job. Maybe be the "Corporate Parenting Manager" for our County Council like Ms. Fonseca, get wads of cash and an OBE. Just tell yourself you can do it. Remember the ant and the rubbertree plant.
Interesting you think working with the vulnerable is sad. What noble service did you provide for humanity in your working life?
Lord Palmerstone
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12:56pm Thu 3 Jan 13
DoctorBob wrote:Porton Down. But you guessed that. No it's sad because you speak with a kind of authority that I took as coming from a more erudite base than social work. Working with the "vulnerable" is fine but it isn't remotely main stream of life, any more than collecting bits of coal that look like Winston Churchill's head.
Lord Palmerstone wrote:I think you should get an OBE my lord just for managing to post without using the word Socialist.
"Having spent a good chunk of my life working with the homeless"
That's really sad Doc Bob. You're some kind of social worker. If you try real hard you could still get a proper job. Maybe be the "Corporate Parenting Manager" for our County Council like Ms. Fonseca, get wads of cash and an OBE. Just tell yourself you can do it. Remember the ant and the rubbertree plant.
Interesting you think working with the vulnerable is sad. What noble service did you provide for humanity in your working life?
carfax cabby ox1
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7:14pm Thu 3 Jan 13
Myron Blatz says...
1:30pm Fri 28 Dec 12